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by David Slorski
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I STILL NEED MORE TO COME THEN TO HOLD
MY LITTLE SISTER, 19, COMMITTED SUICIDE AS WELL. I DONT KNOW HOW TO DEAL WITH IT. SHE AND I HAD A HUGE ARGUEMENT BEFORE SHE DIED AND I FEEL TERRIBLE THAT IT MAY HAVE BEEN ME THAT PUSHED HER OFF THE EDGE. SHE HAD PREVIOUSLY SHOWED NO SIGNS OF SUICIDE. I JUST WANT EVERYONE TO KNOW THAT WE SHOULD WATCH WHAT WE SAY TO THOSE WE LOVE. WE NEVER KNOW WHAT THEY ARE CAPABLE OF. I LOVE MY SISTER BUT I AM ANGRY WITH HER. HOW COULD SHE DO THIS TO ME? TO OUR FAMILY?
One thing that people need to understand about a person who has decided to stop living here on this planet is...they live on beyond earth. We, who know that earth is no longer where we wish to be, will only die to this place. We go on, in a different space, a different place, and one that is better than this. This was a place we came to learn harsh lessons and some of us have just had enough of them. It is time to go. No one needs to feel guilty or responsible for what the person chose to do by leaving here.
I agree with Wendy fully! This is a world ful of evil, hatred, jealousy and you wouldn't imagine the extent to which most inhabitants of this planet will sink to, just to safeguard their petty wants and lusts. Look around you and see where this world is heading to ... don't pretend as if some sort of goodness still exists in this pathetic jungle. What's funny is ... it's this same world that tries to convince you of the demerits of suicide by way of lip service whereas in reality none of these self assumed do gooders will even lift a finger to make things right. I guess it's their way of thinking that somehow, all their tomfoolery gives them a sense of 'goodness". Well, I have got news for you, for people contemplating suicide like I am, we are not idiots who cannot weigh in the consequences of our actions like you think, we are making a conscious and deliberate choice to leave the phony, hollow and petty minded breed amongst you for good since we have had it with you. You don't let us live in peace, atleast let us die in peace !I don't think people who contemplate suicide are stupid. I think that their awareness of the dark side of life is amplified. And chemical imbalances can cloud a human being's judgement to the point where they need an objective view to put some harrowing experiences in perspective. Darkness could not be defined, if this world contains no light to provide some contrast. I believe that just as there is some greed, jealousy, and hatred in this world, there is also love, compassion, and jenuine caring.
I would like to say I feel an instant awareness with the story of the guy who had 500 people at his funeral. I know if I do it many people will be terribly upset. They will all cry 'Why, why, he was so nice, always happy and always helping others'Yes thats true, if you needed any help with anything I'd be there by your side. I wouldn't judge you, I don't go in for slagging people off and unless you are mean to others I'd be your friend.Unfortunately I too can identify with "he was overwhelmed with feelings he didn't understand".I don't want to die, in fact I'm furious with God how he made me , yes he made me and how I feel. I pray and cry to be made normal but no. And everyday the sad emptyness grows, the sensation of a hollow chasm feels black inside.I can't be cured, and this planet (made by God) is only a beautiful place if he allows you freedom to love without condition.He decided I wouldn't be allowed in that team the day he made me.I can tell you now, if you are allowed to put your arms around the one you love.. you have the one and only thing that matters.
First of all, it's called JONETOWN, not Jamestown.usually you have consecutive comments when you say first but thanks... any other things you wish to point out that aren't relevant to the point?
One of my friends that I went to school with and college was found dead on October 20, 2009 in his faternity with a shotgun wound to the chest. He was the smartest person I knew and he was going to school to be a History teacher. I am having a hard time coping with what happened due to the fact that he was someone who everyone looked up to even me! I just don't understand why he would do something like this when he had loving friends and a loving family. I almost have a feeling that someone else did this to him, I have never heard of anyone shooting themself in the chest with a shotgun. This is my second friend that has done this, I had a friend from highschool that shot himself in the head and to this day I still don't get it. I don't understand how you can feel that life is so bad that you need to end it. I just wish that there was something that I could have done to help or stop them from doing this. How do you cope? How do you go on your day and forget about what happened? I guess the hardest thing for me is that my dad died from brain cancer unvoluntarily and you get someone who has a chance to live and they end it just like that. My dad didn't have a choice to live or die... I almost wish you could substitute the people who don't want to live with people who want to live that have a disease. I just feel that it is so selfish!! If anyone can give me some advice on how to move on it would help out alot.Thank youWhen we come to the point where we obsess about asking why we are doing the deceased the greatest disrespect. If it ended up that was a murder, it would certainly change your view of him, but not the life he lived. I do not think we are defined by our death, just as a cake isn't defined by the last slice taken. Its defined by how rich and well the cake tasted or how well the life was lived.One way you can go on, is promising to give time to those who need you. You have to tell yourself that there are things you could have done, and you need be the best friend you can be to those people. Dont call them selfish, they hate it just as much as you do.It's all about one's perspective on life. If someone wants to then it is their choice. It is not selfish.
I've lost two brothers to suicide! 1ST was my oldest brother in 1999 and 2ND was my youngest Brother just two months ago! It never gets easy and it always hurts. It was my little brothers' friend and I who found him on Oct.2nd! And I cant get that image out of my head! I still have a hard time sleeping cause all I do Is think of " what if" "why" just so many questions!! My little brother was so young! so smart never showed any sign of depression he was always so happy! And what bothers me the most is why he did it? and why he was dressed in a tux when I found him?My family thinks he had a medical problem and didnt want to bug us or burden us! any input to help would be nice!
not a day passes by without me thinking about suicide... i'm a 16 year old student who wishes his life to come to an end. I never felt love from my family, never felt that i fit in the family... i don;t talk with friends about this cause i feel uncomfortable. i face difficulties while sleeping as i think about it. I imagine my self in the school's playground, pointing the gun on my head and rain falling all around. My life got ruined by my school's principle and a girl i m so in love with. i've been loving her for more than 7 years and we have dated just 7 months. It would have eased the pain away from me if we were just friends but too bad when she passes next to me at school we won't talk or smile to each other. my parents keep on arguing and when i try to study all i hear is them screaming!im getting really low grades because of that and i hate this situatuion i dnt wana be a failure!i know that i could be just as successful as anyone else i know.many things lead me to the idea of scuide but i won't commit suicide cause im stronger than that. cz i know that one day im gna meet someone new and i know that everything could be fixed and it is never late even though there is no one to support me.
You say you don't talk to friends about this. Even you cnnot say you are without friends. It may very well be that you receive little support from your family. Your motive should be to survive long enough to have a family of your own and to give them the support you never had. Create your own bubble of love. And if that doesn't come as quickly as you would like, find solace in knowing you are not alone. Don't feel like a freak who is the only person in the world who suffers alone. Given enough time and the courage to reach out, you will find love. I was very attracted to a young woman who was very timid and shy and she too felt alone. I did everything in my power to assure her of her great worth and I meant every word. Everything I said I meant. I wasn't feeding her a line of bull. In fact, she was the most beautiful and kind soul I have ever known. It's as if she was from another world. She leapt to her death off a famous bridge this December 12th at 3AM in the dark and cold waters of Lake Michigan. What a loss! What an unbearable loss and insufferable pain wrought from her decision. I will never be the same. I am dying inside because of her absence. I wonder if she knew how important she was to the people in her life? I'll bet she knows now. 50% divorce rate, suicide running rampant, you can feel the weeping and wailing all around the world. But there is light if you know nwhere to find it. God knows I'm looking for mine after that incredibly sad day. The finality of that transition is unbearable so please spare your friends such sadness. If you can't reach out to them and they turn you away, find some new friends. Yes, this world is about hard lessons. And if you drop out of this school, you'll only have to retake the test in the future.
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